Twin flame / Soul mate concept debunked

I received an email request from a reader of my blog asking for me to write an article on ” twin flames”.

Here is a snippet I found on a website discussing the twin flame concept.

“If I were to describe quickly what I think TF’s are, I would say to imagine Yin & Yang. Our twin and ourselves have our own separate identities – formed by life experiences, etc. – yet we really are one; like two sides to the same coin. During – rare? – incarnations together, oftentimes something will invariably keep you apart. I also believe – for most of us anyway – that our twins are watching over us from The Other Side.
Now, is any of this really true? That’s up to you to decide for yourself. Follow your instincts and inner voice, not anyone else’s.”

What’s interesting about this statement is in order for it to make sense the author has no other choice than to bundle several new age concepts together to make sense out of this.  The twin flame concept is not new, it has other labels such as ‘soul mates’ which pertains to the belief that somewhere in the world (or spiritual realm) is a perfect person, a perfect partner, a perfect match of each and everyone of us.  It cannot be proven of course and therefore the author asks you to ‘follow’ your instincts and ‘inner voice’ and avoid other peoples opinions (who disagree).  This is a demonstration  of selective thinking which is the process whereby one selects only favorable evidence for remembrance and focus, while ignoring unfavorable evidence for a belief. It is also the basis for many, if not most, occult and pseudoscientific beliefs.  Following your instincts is not an accurate statement since you only respond to instinct.  Just to clarify, instincts are learned behaviors that keep us alive.  A child may put their hand in a flame once, maybe twice but after that they will never need to consciously think about doing it again.  Coming close to a flame, they will surely retreat.  Following your inner voice is no different from following instructions from a spiritual entity, which is exactly what it is.  As usual, I ask you, who is this entity, where is it from, what does it want, how can you prove it is who it says it is?

Ok, so I’m digressing but you get my point, in order to try to explain this far fetched concept you need a number of new age based assumptions. The Yin and Yang symbol represent duality in the same way that magic powers can be used for both good and evil, in that both good and evil need to co-exist.  What the author misunderstands is in order to find a perfect match using the yin and yang model is ultimately, one partner much be perfectly good and the other perfect evil in order to find that balance. So why the author gets on to reincarnation and Karma I am at the least surprised and here lies the greatest deception.  I can rationalize this by asking you the think of a friend or someone you once knew who lived a life without a perfect partner.  This alone would prove that the twin flame concept is fake, however, if you introduce the karmic aspect then you have a reason why his/her relationship was not perfect. Karma is nothing of course without its counterpart, reincarnation since without this addition the whole twin flame concept falls on its back, it become unreliable.
As i have stated on many occasions, the whole Karma concept is flawed.  You only have to look at India who have been practicing this religion aspect for 1000’s years to see that nothing has improved for the vast majority.  In fact it was used to enforce the cast system whereby many large sections of the population could be born into and remained in an impoverished state.So to conclude I have demonstrated that the reason why many people choose to believe in the twin flame or soul mate concept is not based on logic.  It’s an emotional, self protective and perhaps almost desperate attempt to cushion the ego from feeling of unworthiness resulting from loneliness or rejection.  in either sense I stress that it really doesn’t have to be this complicated.  The Lord truly does have our best interests at heart, after all he is your father and he loves you very much.  Since all else will fail why not turn to him knowing that at the very least you will receive eternal life with a loving father God forever.

About Gaz Parker

I was born with the ability to see spirit entities. I learned to ignore them for most of my life but during 2004 I had a kind of spiritual awakening so i thought. For years I questioned it until I asked God to show me what this is. God showed me the truth and I realised these spirits are evil, they are demons. Jesus never left me, he love me and he loves you too. My audio testimony can be found here. Contact me here: newagedeception@gmail.com
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95 Responses to Twin flame / Soul mate concept debunked

  1. ballee says:

    Hello my friend! happy new year! I just noticed how this particular article of yours got low ratings but no comments, that tells me that some people are attached to the idea that there must be a perfect match for them but cannot come up with something to back that up or defend their positions other than their intuitions? Soul mates play on spiritual exclusivity, you for me, and me for you and no one else. It’s an extremely biased concept that leaves logic out, taking in consideration there are lots of people who could be just as fine for you but because they are using selective sight and emotional reinforcement of past experiences tunnel vision kicks in to serve the ego. I will tell you this in no major religion is ever said there is a perfect someone to complete you, god is there to complete you, humans just make the ride fun and nothing else.

  2. ballee says:

    In the scriptures Jesus says that if you divorce then find someone else to marry, this statement is indicative no one is special or attached to you since the beginning and what about those with the gift of singleness, celibacy or those who are simply asexual or with a low drive for attraction? Do we just discard them in the bin of “do not apply” or also include them in god’s plan package with a purpose?

  3. Brody Nave says:

    Well the twin flame concept is a very biased opinion in most cases…but what if the twinflame concept isn’t just a human counterpart…it talks of a counterpart of your consciousness. after that “split” like the yin and yang…That “soul mate/twin-flame” could just as likely be a hobby…or a way of being…you enjoy being in a relationship…so your twin-flame counterpart is to put yourself into relationships. Or you enjoy being single and doing what you want to and not have to worry about another…so then your twin-flame counterpart is to enjoy life without the “tied down” aspect…I think we as humans have a tendency to look at things quite logically…that is why these things seem so far-fetched….but when you start to look at things as more than just what they say…They take on a whole new meaning.

    • Gaz Parker says:

      Broody,

      It’s interesting that by rationalising this new age concept you have changed its original meaning to fit into a more palatable notion. This is nothing do with with the conflict of opposites either (yin and yang). If we try to rationalise a false teaching we just as bad because we then create a new false teaching. Likewise, if we attempt to explain spiritual deception from a worldly we will not find an adequate answer. That’s why people are seeking spiritual sources and they are finding them, unfortunately, these spirits are not from God.

      • Lyra says:

        FIRST OFF, THE TWIN FLAME CONCEPT HAS ZERO TO DO WITH YING/YANG AND ANY WHO CONCEPTUALIZE IT THAT WAY HAVE COMPLETELY MISSED THE MARK. I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. YING AND YANG IS A PRODUCT OF THE CONCEPT OF DUALITY… TWIN FLAME LOVE IS HERE TO BREAK US FROM THE ILLUSION OF SEPARATION AND BRING US BACK TO THE SOURCE…

        ANYONE WHO READS THE ACTUAL TWIN FLAME CONCEPT AND UNDERSTANDS WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT (BY WAY OF SEEING IT THROUGH THE OPEN EYE OF PHILOSOPHY RATHER THAN CLOSED EYES OF RELIGION) YOU WILL SEE THAT THE TWIN FLAME UNION IS NOT ABOUT THE YING AND YANG, (I HAVE NO IDEA WHY PEOPLE ASSOCIATE IT WITH THAT – WHEN IT IS SO OPPOSITE) ITS ABOUT THE COLLAPSE OF DUALITY. THE END OF THE YING/YANG, WHERE EACH INDIVIDUAL IN THE UNION IS UNIQUE BUT SIMILAR, THEIR TALENTS ENHANCE EACH OTHER AND BRING OUT ASPECTS THAT ARE NOT “TRUE” OF THE OTHER INDIVIDUAL BECAUSE, LIKE A MIRROR, YOUR TWIN FLAME REFLECTS BACK TRUTHS ABOUT YOURSELF YOU MAY BE UNABLE TO SEE. ITS A PROFOUND EXPERIENCE AND DOES NOT NECESSARILY NEED TO BE A ROMANTIC ONE.

        ITS ABOUT LOVE, AND LEARNING TO RETURN TO THE SOURCE. TO THE DIVINITY OF BEING “ONE” AND PERSONAL GROWTH (WITH AND WITHOUT THE TWIN FLAME) ITS ABOUT REALIZING THAT DUALITY IS AN OUTDATED CONCEPT THAT KEEPS US ALL SEPARATE. IT IS A CONTROL MECHANISM THAT KEEPS US IN FEAR OF THE “EVIL” THAT MUST CERTAINLY EXIST BECAUSE OF THE “GOOD”. BOTH BEING WORDS THAT KEEP US AWAY FROM UNDERSTANDING TRUE ONENESS (WHICH IS LOVE FOR SELF AND FOR ALL)

        A TWIN FLAME HELPS ONE GROW IN LOVE OF SELF, BECAUSE IT IS ESSENTIALLY SELF AND IS BASED ON A LOVE THAT IS UNCONDITIONAL.

        THIS IS AT LEAST THE WAY I SEE IT, MY OPINION BEING NO MORE OR LESS VALID THAT THE WRITER OF THIS POST. I HAVE MET THIS “TWIN FLAME” PERSON AND I CAN ASSURE YOU THERE IS MORE THAN JUST THE PSEUDO NEW AGE CONCEPTS (ALTHOUGH MANY WILL MAKE IT THAT WAY SO THEY CAN CASH IN ON IT) TWIN FLAMES ARE THE MIRROR, THE GATEWAY, TO LOVING ONES SELF UNCONDITIONALLY (THE TRUTH OF ENLIGHTENMENT IS TO FIND THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN INSIDE OF YOURSELF – THAT PLACE OF LOVE AND LIGHT) AND NOT ABOUT ROMANCE…

        • Anonymous says:

          Agreed, and for those who want to put it into spiritual terms:

          21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

          23 The man said,

          “This is now bone of my bones
          and flesh of my flesh;
          she shall be called ‘woman,’
          for she was taken out of man.”

          Adam and Eve were at one time ONE. Chew on that for a moment.

          • Some girl says:

            22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

            The Bible is referring to marriage as a union of flesh, not souls, which is the case in Twin Flames. Besides, oneness comes from God, not from your so-called Twin Flame. The purpose is not to unite with someone. The purpose is to unite with God. Wives, husbands, relatives, friends…these will all be gone one day. They are here only for a short time. But the only friend who stays is Jesus.

          • Some girl says:

            By the way, woman is made from man because “Life comes from pre-existing life”. It’s how it is in nature. That’s why mother’s give birth to their babies.

  4. Bev says:

    Thank you so much for this article. I was one of those ‘desperate’ people hanging on to the twin flame thing to make myself feel better. The guy is a jerk. Plain & simple. He’s not a soul mate/twin flame or whatever. If such a thing existed, these people wouldn’t deliberately hurt you. Makes no sense at all. love is love. Plain & simple. The rest is games & ***hole behaviour

  5. becominglove says:

    I don’t enjoy engaging in this but I wish to express that this misunderstanding is largely a case of not being able to understand that which one has not experienced, and furthermore cannot obtain knowledge about through experimentation or reference or some sort of demonstration or example. It wouldn’t be impossible yet because most of the twin flame experience is an internal journey it is hard to make sense of it here in the outer or the physical. However I believe that when someone experiences a twin flame union they know the profundity of what they are going through and they witness the world before them alter by way of their cleansed perception. They ultimately come to a pure state of being, one of the most unconditional love. People often pick at the pain that most people report and confuse it for something negative but pain in this sense is symbolic of growth, of purging.. Of the forceful transformation that is the overtaking of your ego by your soul. Although most of what indicates a twin flame union seems to be merely idealistic or imaginary, fairytale.. When you experience it you know that it simply is as it is and that it wasn’t your intention to mystify it or enhance it. It simply is an experience of heaven on earth. I personally find it unfortunate that others would rather reduce the experience or try to disprove it than to open their mind to it and try to understand how and why this may be possible.

  6. Gaz Parker says:

    The persuit of higher/hidden knowledge is as old as the world and is the hallmark of hidden deception. We go wrong when we choose experience as an indication for truth. When well meaning people such as ‘Becominglove’ make subjective statements based on either their own experience or experiences of others we should question its validity. This particular statement caught my attention, they say:

    “When you experience it you know that it simply is as it is and that it wasn’t your intention to mystify it or enhance it. It simply is an experience of heaven on earth. ”

    From the above statement we can see ‘Becominglove’ bases her definition of truth purely on experience. Is this truth? Well, lets consider the meaning of truth, this a verified or indisputable fact. This is a major problem with new age and original occult teachings, it relies on validity through experience therefore rendering a stalemate of ‘my truth’ v’s ‘your truth’. Imagine therefore I notice a house on fire and call the fire service but there refuse to come stating that through previous experience they ‘know’ the fire will not kill anyone and will go out shortly. I know that alternative spiritual experiences and would guess our ‘Becominglove’ has experienced something that that cannot be explained so easily from a physical perspective. I get that, but that’s all it is, just an experience.

    So how then do we know the truth?

    If we are dealing with a supernatural occurrence then we need to find a reliable supernatural resource. New age guru’s, psychics and mediums do get things right from time to time but are notoriously wrong as well. Would you seriously invest your life savings with a insurance company that has a chequered past? Why then are we so vulnerable to variations of eastern mysterism? The fact of the matter remains in where we look for answers, do we anchor our house to foundations of sand or that of rock? The truth is out there but its not hidden and nor is it secret and nor does in manifest through experience alone. What other source of truth has stood up to constant truth other than that of the Bible?

    • charlene says:

      Peter, seeing him, said to Jesus, “But “Lord, what about this man? Jesus said to him, “If I will that he remain here until I come, what is to you? You follow me.” John 21:21-22

  7. Catarina says:

    Hi!
    I think that our soul mate is Jesus because only God is love and only He is able to accept us and understand us, specially nowadays where there’s huge propaganda about sex and beauty and those superficial things. It’s all about the body and pleasure and the spiritual love is forgotten. We can never experience true love without God in our lives. I also think that when we find the true and real love of the Living God, He will give us a perfect match to fulfill our human desires because at the end of the day He knows that we are flesh and we were made to have a partner and procreate. Than we have the best from heaven and earth. 🙂

  8. Beullah says:

    Just out of curiosity what is the average IQ here? Most of these opinions are based
    on “Minimal” “Basic Intelligence”. If you are not smart enough to comprehend then you
    cannot form any relevant intelligent conclusion. Most basically intelligent people work with
    the basic ego or “Id”. There Identity is sufficed by thinking the are right. They are working
    from the “Negative Ego”. The “alchemical concepts of creation” are much too advanved
    for “Basic Humans”. Transcend and perhaps you will evolve that you may understand
    God’s “Great Work”.

  9. Rosemary says:

    Sorry to inform u people, MOST people on earth have no twin flame because they do not have enough energy to split. Very very few souls have a twin flame. I do have a twin flame and our chakra mechanism and connection is very different from other soulmates :). The main problem with the media is that they applied the twin flame concept with every person… which is very wrong.
    Having a twin flame or not is no great thing. We are complete in ourself.

    • Nicole says:

      The research I have done. that everyone has a twin flame but not everyone meets there’s. It depends on there life course I guess. I have experience a lot of what it explains about twin flames go through. I believe in and love my father in heaven. My dad told me about them but I wasn’t sure what he was talking about. I don’t he’s met his. though I still growing with god. I’m fallowing him and allowing him to show me if My twin flame is really my twin flame or was it just a strong obsession or fetish I had for him and that he was playing games with me. I read my bible and knowing the verse about don’t mix the yoke, a child of god marring a none believer. though still have strong feeling for my twin and still see him in my dreams but he is a jerk. he make me cry in my dreams then its like he trys to comfort me when I do. I want nothing to do with him anymore. I want to work on me and continue to grow with god. So if he is really my twin flame only time will tell and god will show me. he answers a lot of my prayers so I know he’s there. On yin and yang I know I’m the good and my twin is the evil.

  10. Hello says:

    It was the best read I’ve ever had until you mentioned God. At first you said “As usual, I ask you, who is this entity, where is it from, what does it want, how can you prove it is who it says it is?” but then you mention God at the end, but no one can prove his existance either. Other than that, an awesome read! 🙂

  11. Dc says:

    The biggest problem is that people try to fit Twin Flame under the same definition of human relationship/romance etc. True Twin Flame is when 2 whole complete spirit has fully evolved. Meaning learned to fully give themselves up to The Lord to be used for HIS glory. Then and only then, will The Lord reunite you with your twin flame.
    This has nothing to do with human romance love. Twin Flame love is purely from God.
    People need to STOP using the term “Twin Flame” to try to define their human love life.
    Human romantic relationship is not perfect. It is not stable. It is not unconditional.
    Twin Flame love IS unconditional! The purpose of the Twin Flame Unity is to further the Lord’s Love and work for his glory.
    Here’s an example from the Bible where The Lord showed us what true Twin Flame Reunion is about.

    After David killed Goliath.
    David’s faith in The Lord led him and his twin flame to awaken. Jonathan, who was the son of King Saul also loved The Lord the same way as David.
    David showed the people his unwavering trust in The Lord when He killed Goliath…

    1Samuel17:45 “David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied.”

    1Samuel17:47 “All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the LORD saves; for the battle is the LORD’s, and he will give all of you into our hands.”

    1Samuel17:50-51 “So David triumphed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone without a sword in his hand he struck down the Philistine and killed him. David ran and stood over him. He took hold of the Philistine’s sword and drew it from the sheath. After he killed him, he cut off his head with the sword.”

    Then David brought Goliaths head to King Saul..
    After they spoke ..

    1Samuel 18:1-4 “After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.
    From that day Saul kept David with him and did not let him return home to his family. And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. Jonathan took off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, and even his sword, his bow and his belt”

    This shows that when we completely open ourselves to The Lord and we reached pure spiritual submission to the divine, so that HIS glory will be revealed through us. Then our spirits are ready to be reunited with our twin flame.

  12. Reila says:

    U believe in God though u never have physically seen him .. But u believe n have faith .. Bec maybe u experienced him n his presence during the lowest point of your life … This is same as twin flame too .. It’s hard for someone who hasn’t experienced finding their twin flame to understand its mere existence .. I have n I tell u it’s very real .. And finally a term that sums up all that I have been feeling n going through .. Having numerous telepathic answer to textes .. Completing my sentences .. Even ridiculous ones that no one else in my life but knows the next words to it detailed dreams of him coming true .. Visions of him that are correct even I haven’t seen him for long time … Experiencing the phase n yes we are from different nationalities n 22 yrs apart in age .. I never felt this divine love ever to someone … I’m a type a personality but w him I am calm happy n tranquil .. I wasn’t a jealous person when I was with him though I was an extremely jealous person with my other past relationships … I am just a great person n him as well when we were both together n we were soooo very very happy like time place n space don’t exist .. We are in separation phase right now .. N it would b nice to reunite with him in this life time .. My life had never been the same again since the day I met my twin flame ..

  13. Ana says:

    The difference is that a twinflame feel the same as you, If the man or woman you are obsessive with doesn’t feel the same about you, if has forgot you and doesn’t think or worry about it’s past together and laugh at you, OBVIOUSLY isn’t a twinflame, is only another soulmate, there’s a problem of low self esteem, there’s a person who can’t deal with rejection, and even a personality disorder, to make you live for a person that is totaly unavailable, in that case you will see a twinflame in anyone.
    And of course, not everyone recognize, find and reunite with a twinflame, that’s why some people never get that “perfect match” not because doesn’t exist, some people doesn’t want to have one anyway, what’s the problem with live life calm and with yourself alone?
    We, the westerns like me have an obsession with “the one and only love”, with the exclusivity and the possesion of the partner, the jealousy and the competition for a partner, like partners are a prize, a triumph over others, well that isn’t a problem of hinduism itself, is a personal thing.
    Hinduism isn’t a science, or a pseudoscientific affair, religion is always myth, is dogma, doesn’t want or wish to be explained anyway. New age is a new thing of the last century, obviously a dark one, but hinduism is not a new invention. What the westerns think or imagine, or idealize about hinduism and what we choose to include in our lives, and what our mental disorders and faults need to feel valuated and less empty, is a different thing.
    Yes, the life in India isn’t fair, isn’t full of love, or justice like they love to say, there’s abuse, slavement, perversion, prostitution, child and women abuse, and greed using the religion to get money and power over others and satisfy they desires. Just like ANY OTHER society and any other religion or political, economic system. To blame aspects of the religion or cult of the other to justify their selfishness and mistakes is very easy. Is like when people say that christianism is fake and useless because the western nations are capitalists, perverted and selfish, there’s poor people and abuse. Not all christian are this way and made this world so awful, not all christians follow the norms and rituals that are evil, unnecesary, empty and full of convenience an selfishness, that exists in any religion, and people have free will, intelect, to pursuit their decisions in life.

  14. Johnny Davis says:

    good i was hoping for bible verses about it. I felt a connection with a woman that just felt right, and I figured it meant that we are both part of God’s chosen elect even if we didn’t know it back then. I know it now, but I have no contact with her and so I don’t know if she has accepted Jesus or not. It could not have meant soul mates because that is ridiculous.

  15. kimani says:

    woman was made from man. and thats a connection between two separated in flesh but connected in spirit.

  16. tamika says:

    The twin flame put into terms of understanding.. Is complete opposite to one another that complement each other making a whole. Think about it like this, every chakra has a positive and a negative charge, where the woman has a negative charge of energy the male will complement them with a positive, so forth.. Once twin flames come together (and they do and you feel it) all those chakras connect, making you a whole complete yin yang balance. And the energy is incredible. It is a really hard journey and it forces you to go within and to deal with any blocks etc.. And makes you do the inner work. Once you become the whole complete version of your true self and the masculine person does to, you come together in union for planetary work, to raise awareness, to heal etc.. You literally become the highest possible physical vibration incarnates on earth, providing means to help humanity, nature and every living thing to ascend. 🙂

    • Lyra says:

      Tamika; Thankyou and what a good way to explain it to others. I still like to think of it as not ying/yang, because that makes people think (due to predetermined notions) that one is “good” and one is “evil”. But you have shown it in the proper light, showing one has the needed energy signature in their own centers(chakra) to help bring forth (and blossom) that which the other may have blockages in, before the two share their love and do their work healing the earth.

      love and light to you, Tamika 🙂

  17. jason says:

    DC YOU’RE A FUCKING COCK, and I say this pessimistically, because this washed up concept of who the “Lord” is, has become the most misleading aspect in human fucking life. I’m irritated because I’m really confused as to how serious the Twin flame concept is, I’m being ignorant. But to clear this Mythology up, allowing the ego to develop character of the lord, rubbish. THE TRINITY the father the son and the holy spirit = energy magnetism consciousness = mind body and spirit. God was explained to me as Good orderly direction, so I ran in that direction. I see it now, the same way we see the “God” particle, seeing that god is life and energy in all forms labelled with that name “god”. and Jesus, who has metaphorical meaning, taking literally in the physical wouldn’t bare any more significance then any other human being, or anybody who died on the cross, because everyone served great purpose and was clouded by this vague perception of “there could only be one”. Twin flames sounds pretty bullshit now to. I understand the Earth has a pretty strong electro magnetic field, and that human beings relay a large portion of that. To really narrow it down to one, that works perfectly for you, that’s like saying one flower every year, only allows selective bugs to pollinate so that that bug can mind read the plant and selective relay that message to another plant for partnership. If humans are capable of twin flames so are animals, but that seems like a fear based concept for attachment and obsession. The twin flame concept is something described by the ego, understood through conscious if your intuitive, and felt and recognized sub consciously if you’re not, but any immense energy that’s had time to grow will feel that way. I understand you’ll find somebody harmonious if you open yourself up and act loving, but it doesn’t mean your twin flame exists in the context it’s used. The end goal is to be in balance and harmonious, but we tend to relate twin flame experience to yin yang theory, one is half of the other experiencing similarities, one needs the other to balance, however that would be conflicting on so many levels. Being completely open and accepting, would lead you to find love displayed relatively, so where would the conflict come from, conflict and family problems and all that other shit is an aspect of the ego. Anybody with a harmonious aspects is perfect for you. you can still experience pain and fear, its malleable, in the split of a second its relevance can dissipate and your back into the realm of love, and that’s the growth we look for, but its a far easier concept to grasp, and being with somebodies right for you, would share that energy, without having much conflict, and you can feel that, “oh my god, whats this feeling” vibe, its infinite, energies growth is infinite

  18. Darci says:

    It’s amazing how angry people become when you demonstrate to them that their new ‘toy’ was just synthetic and not organic after all (in this instance, the TF myth)!

  19. Lisa says:

    Twin flames are very real and very RARE. The New Age community high jacked and re-packaged the concept to suit their beliefs. I am a Christian and had a genuine twin flame experience. I met a man last summer who I was speaking with telepathically daily for 4 months. The experience was purely mystical and took place solely in our minds; there was no physical contact whatsoever. God spoke to me directly and I was guided by angels. The angel told me I was chosen (for the experience) because of my child-like faith in God. I am and have always been a strict adherer to Gods written word, so the experience had me very confused when it first started happening. I thought is was a satanic attack – telepathy was supposed to be witch craft. As time went on I realized I was being blessed and experiencing a miracle. The experience involved not only telepathy, but visions as well. I understand this is hard to believe but I am telling the truth. My main message to anyone who reads this is God is real. Pick up your bibles and believe his word. Drop these false New Age lies and stop being deceived.

    • Glennie says:

      Make your research, Twin Flame came from Kundalini. Kundalini is a pagan belief. They believe that there is mother power.

      Dont be deceived people! This concept is a joke. Only God will complete us

      • Lisa says:

        There is nothing new under the sun. The Pharisees attributed Jesus miracles to satan when He walked the earth and modern day Pharisees do the same. I truly believe a real born again Christian would be able to discern that I’m telling the truth. My testimony is to build up the church, not lead them in another direction!. I would NEVER, EVER, ever lie about something like this!!!. What happened to me was the biggest miracle I’ve ever heard of a human go through aside from what’s in the bible. NO human has ever gone through what I went through last summer. This is to God’s glory, not my own!. God would strike me down if I pushed him to the side and used it for my own glory, I wouldn’t even dare, heck no, if there’s one thing I’ve learned is you don’t want to make God angry, His chastisements are TERRIBLE! Again, I was telepathic all day everyday for 4 months in the year 2013. God as my witness!

        • Areti says:

          hi i have a twin flame and i need help with is. I am also Christian and noone to talk to would you mind talking to me i private please

        • Freewind8 says:

          Lisa, you are dealing with satan, he has confused you. Lisa, you are very wrong, I´ve had a supposed twin flame experience, it is not according to the word of God, and it is not God´s Will, no one should be connected to another soul in the spirit level, for that is a sin against God, for it is only God´s place to be connected to us in spirit level. That to say the least, and I´m not even talking about the spiritual warfare that I have had to go through against demons because of this. Scripture that supports this:

          2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

          2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

          3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

          4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

          DO I NEED TO REPEAT IT AGAIN?

          2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

          2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

          3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

          4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

          1 Corinthians 3:16-17:“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.”

    • Ebdl says:

      You need to tell us more Lisa ?

    • Red says:

      Lol you’re wrong.

    • Jessica says:

      I am a Christian too. I am soo confused because I’m experiencing this too….I am so afraid this is demonic….but when I met this person it was like I could sense him miles away…I can feel his emotions…..and I had a mystical experience the other night…we are both married……but this is got me torn….I met him out of the blue…I had never been soo attracted to anyone…but I knew this was wrong I just couldn’t help it….now years later…im still experiencing mystical things…I just pray Jesus still loves me…and I don’t know why this is happening to me

      • Freewind8 says:

        yes I know, satan confuses us, get away from this and come to Yeshua Hamashiaj, read this you´ll see why the twin flame concept is a sin, I´ve had a supposed twin flame experience, it is not according to the word of God, and it is not God´s Will, no one should be connected to another soul in the spirit level, for that is a sin against God, for it is only God´s place to be connected to us in spirit level.

        2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

        2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

        3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

        4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

    • Jackie says:

      Please repent of this, this is not the real Jesus. At best it is a delusion at worst an angel of Light, a counterfeit. Please trust me, and do not trust this source, ask for God’s forgiveness for this desire, that it is false, ask for His help and turn away please. Blessings.

  20. More to the Truth says:

    I agree with you; Author, which is why I must post this here:
    http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/How-To-Seduce-Someone-With-The-Twin-Flame-Theory/5003541

    it is dark, I know, but people need to understand this, they need to see the dangers of this theory.

  21. Clueless says:

    I’m asking you to help us who have twinflames. I’m telling you it is not a myth. I had never heard of twinflames or read anything about New Age concept in my life. Nothing. Then one time I saw photos and video clips of this one person and I had this thought that we had the same soul. Not two halfs but that we were complete yet the same and that I knew what he likes. I also felt that it was a divine connection. I thought to myself the love was pure and unconditional. I knew he felt the same way about me. I’m telling you need to listen when we try to tell you about this. Denying it makes just us turn to seek help from some place else. You need to take this seriously. I’m really worried because I can’t find much Christian support anywhere. I need it so badly. There are twinflame couples in every religion and continent I think. I too afraid to ask about my christian friends for an advice because no one has ever heard of it. I’m scared they’re going to put that label on it. It’s difficult to find support that’s not New Age and I don’t want that. Please help.

    • Lily says:

      Cueless you are just another woman in love, NOT a Twin Flame. It is obsessed/delusional people like you who give true Twin Flames a bad name. People fall in love and are so self-obsessed & selfish that they think something really unique and special must be happening because THEY have never experienced love before. The Twin flame journey is mystical for crying out loud. Did you have his voice in your head? Did God speak to you? Did you speak with angels? Did you have visions? Synchronicities? Explosion of energy? Time warping? (clocks show 1:1, 2:2 etc. when it happens) and much more out of this world reality bending (by God) . Also, I could never in a million years imagine God would award such an awesome blessing to Christ rejectors, no I don’t think so, this is only for His elect.

      • Clueless says:

        “this is only for His elect.”

        “People fall in love and are so self-obsessed & selfish that they think something really unique and special must be happening”

        Don’t you think you just contradicted yourself?

        It seems that since it happened to you you feel like you’re unique and special that not just anyone can have it? Isn’t that thought a little…. I don’t selfish? Or from the “ego” as some people might say?

        How have you grown? What have you learned from love with your experience? You just judged me by your own thinking process… It was all you. I only told you the beginning of the story. All I said that I never knew or read anything about twin souls when I found out I had one.

        Perhaps I shouldn’t be talking to you. I have no obligation to convince you. You have no right to determine for other people if their experience is real or not, especially if you don’t know them or their story. If you claim that it just means you think it’s for other people to decide whether this experience exists between them or not – therefore you give them the right to question your story’s authenticity as well. If you really have a twin you should know that only the twins can recognize their twin. No one else (except God…).Therefore you have no right to claim that someone is not “right” about their twin.

        Now, I would’ve agreed with you about those “romanticizing” women if you would’ve made your point in a considerate manner (by that I mean you had acknowledged that your perception is not the “right” and “only” when it comes to twins. I’m sure there have been couples before you and people who would’ve have not chased people from their door saying “oh, you’re just delusional” because if you really have a twin you know that it sometimes makes wonder if… well if you’re just imagining things).

        I have a twin and I was hoping for some christian support here since I don’t like the new age concept. I guess I came to the wrong door here.

      • Red says:

        Lmao you don’t have to believe in that stupid nasty Jesus to have true love.

      • Freewind8 says:

        I guess you mean for the elects of satan, lol. you are dealing with satan, he has confused you. You are very wrong, I´ve had a supposed twin flame experience, it is not according to the word of God, and it is not God´s Will, no one should be connected to another soul in the spirit level, for that is a sin against God, for it is only God´s place to be connected to us in spirit level. That to say the least, and I´m not even talking about the spiritual warfare that I have had to go through against demons because of this. Scripture that supports this:

        2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

        2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

        3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

        4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

        DO I NEED TO REPEAT IT AGAIN?

        2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

        2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

        3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

        4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

        1 Corinthians 3:16-17:“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.”

  22. Rachael says:

    Lily….you sound uneducated and brainwashed. “I could never in a million years imagine God would award such an awesome blessing to Christ rejectors.” Like really? Who taught you this bull? A twin flame is meant for anyone to have. Not just people who practice Christ or whatever. You must be a member of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kansas lol

  23. Lily says:

    Rachael go back a few comments and read Lisa’s comment…now THAT is a real twin flame story…oh, and she happens to be Christian 😉
    One more thing, 99.999 % of the “twin flames” you read about on the internet are full of shit horny women with broken hearts and great imaginations. This is a RARE gift from God yet thousands of people around the country have supposedly met their twin flames. People love deceiving others and especially themselves.

    • Freewind8 says:

      it is not a gift of God, is a bullshit from satan.

      2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

      2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

      3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

      4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

      DO I NEED TO REPEAT IT AGAIN?

      2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

      2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

      3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

      4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

      1 Corinthians 3:16-17:“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.”

  24. Lost says:

    I think I met my twin flame if there is such a thing. A few months before I met him I felt that I was going to meet someon one southern and felt an ” essence” about it..this came out of nowhere for no reason..I was always very wrapped up in work. Then I seen his name that he was coming to my office soon and he was a replacement for someone that left. When I seen his name I felt like you will know this person someone it will be something special..I laughed at myself thought I was stressed..I have met 100 of people and watched them come and go..so when I had to pick him up it was just another day. I was annoyed I had to show him around. Immediately as soon as we talked it seemed extremely familiar like he was a sibling that a grew up with I couldn’t believe it. I was in awe by his physical appreciate I didn’t lust after him or for him but something seemed unnaturally familiar about him. I put it out of my mind..and we kept having lots of opportunities to see each other and talk and every time we did it was extremely unique conversations and we seemed to agree on everything. We even had the same blood type which makes me wonder about the biology aspect a little, if that’s a factor or influence. Anyway I didn’t lust after him at all but felt connected,comfortable and familiar. I’ve had lots of relationship and been in love lots of times but this was very unique..when I thought of something shit you not he would bring it up later or had researched the same subject..I even guessed every present he got me. I could read him..when I felt a certain way he felt it too even if we hadn’t talked or seen each other that day..he was the best friend I ever had to the deepest connection..he had to move..he became very anger and hurt that I couldn’t move with him..then one day he said he felt hollow inside and couldn’t take it anymore. He shut down his emotions..he closed me out and wouldn’t discuss anything with me..he said he felt like a zombie. And then he refused to speak to me..I didn’t realize how much I loved him..I am a rational person and thought well life happens it’s okay I have god and he has plans..but when he stopped talking to me. Wow..I felt like half my soul died..I was never so crushed..my best friend, my family was gone. I thought of him like family like my twin brother..I am a women by the way..we were intimate but I say he was like blood because it was much more than romance or a really good friend..there are no words for what it was..extremely beautiful. I don’t know what it all means..I was and still am devestated at the loss of him he..he was my dear friend and my sweetheart. So to say this is just lost women with egos..that’s ignorant..is losing your mother or father sister or brother and missing them..ego? When Mary cried over Jesus..was that just her obsessive ego? God is love and love is god..there’s nothing with loving someone. Everyone is unique and when they leave you, you feel it deeply nod you mourn it. I am very angry at the way it turned out but also deep down inside I wish lots of love and good things for him. I just wish I could look deeply into his eyes one last time so he can feel my love and blessings for him..I never heard of soulmates or twin flames before I met him..I don’t know what it was, it was one of a kind and it will never happen in this life time again..so it was a blessing that I got to experience that with someone..but dear lord what a battle it is to be without. So my conclusion whatever the fuck anything is who really knows..but love is real and with out it there would be no forgiveness and no compassion..and what kind of world would that be? So for you my dove, what ever you are doing out there in the world..your deeply loved and missed,you will always find a home back in my arms.

  25. Lost says:

    * I wasn’t in awe of his physical appearance..so it wasn’t a physical attraction..at first..later I came to love every single aspect of him..flaws and all.

  26. Lost says:

    I also want to add that we had similar likes but vastly different views and different back grounds i am also older than he is. When ever we touched each other’s skin, it was like magical electricity. Our bodies fit together in very way. My hand fit perfectly inside of his. What ever he was I wasn’t and opposite.. He was a dreamer and I am very structured we balanced each other out..even zodiac we are complete opposites..I am a Capricorn he is a cancer..Even our scent together was sweet and perfect. Lol..if you ever meet someone that’s very special to you..try your hardest for them..even if the universe says no at least you’ll have no regrets..people you love are worth fighting for..if I could do one thing different, I would of stopped being so afraid of it all, I don’t feel things a lot and it was all so intense..and I would have stopped trying to cover it up and stop pushing him away emotionally and told him how special and beautiful he was..and how much he ment to me..you only have one life to live people..the choice is yours with the blessing of god of course..but it’s yours to live..make it mean something.

  27. Lost says:

    Also, someone said ” an experience isn’t the truth” doesn’t god give you trials and experiences to show you the truth? Why would there be testimonies? This story wil be my testimony because it had a lot more to do with a broken romance that didn’t work..god and beliefs were existent a lot in this relationship and I’ve gone through many things many bad things..but some how this one hurt the most because they’re was a lot of love there..it showed me god can bring love in your live from the most unlikely source when you least expect it( I’ve always been kinda a man hater) and to love and appreciate what you have when you have it and never become selfish about it because it can be taken away just as quickly. Life is short and fragile..so cherish every moment of it and all of the people in it.

    • lisa says:

      Lost, I don’t doubt you’re story, and by the sound of it it seems like you met your perfect match, but there is nothing in that story that indicates you met your twin flame. The twin flame journey is mystical, I repeat mystical. Experiencing a variety of human emotions and sensations, no matter the intensity, is not a sign of a twin flame pairing. Having everything in common, looking the same, thinking the same, having the same tastes and calling each other at the same time are not signs of a twin flame pairing. Twin Flames have access to the supernatural. They are telepathic and experience visions. They show up at the same place at the same time multiple times a day (synchronicity) In my case God spoke to me and I was guided by angels. The experience was so out of this world that I am met with disbelief even from my own family.

  28. Sadie says:

    If there really is such a thing as a “twin flame”, it’s become extremely misused to the point that it makes it very hard to believe. People nowadays are looking for their twin flame or soulmate, or think that certain people they were in relationships with were twin Flames or soul mates, and they get caught up in it and so on. Then other people think every relationship they get into is with their twin flame. Once again, we are left looking outside of ourselves to find meanings to our lives and for completion which is deceptive. If there is such a thing, I doubt it’d be teaching people to go outside of self for answers. That is a path leading to destruction. I’ve heard from one source that we can’t “ascend” until we’ve United with our twin flame. Ummm…sorry but sounds like new age bullshit. Reminds Meir the term “indigo child” how it’s thrown around so loosely these days, any child that shows symptoms of add or bad behavior is an Indigo. Give me a break. That alone, especially in America can be debunked. Maybe they aren’t indigo but have been subject to all the chemical pesticides and pollution in this country and it messed with their brain chemistry. I feel that there is a logical explanation for everything, and technology will beable to prove most things so when it advances. i am not saying that these things don’t exist, but just because they do exist doesn’t mean we should throw commen sense out the window.

    • Clueless says:

      I agree with you, Sadie. I think it’s kinda strange people decide they’re gonna find their twin or “attract” as they say in a way as if you could create your partner (=manifest) them in this world. And they try to change/develop themselves just to find their partner…

      It’s very hard to have a twin. I’ve had moments when I felt it was a huge burden to have, then moments when I’ve felt it has been the biggest blessing in my life… I haven’t met him, but I know he knows about me and he knows I know. We communicate but I’m trying hard to forget about him.

      I think the human mind can be a powerful force, even if it’s just psychologically. If we decide we want to find a “twin” or want to believe it so badly, we will create all those signs ourselves that tell us that “yeah, that’s what this is” and just lie to ourselves. I wish people would understand this. I think most of the new age way of thinking is just imagination, like crystals and such. It’s very easy to mislead people when they’re so desperate to found love. If they really loved themselves they would trust their inner feeling more like f.ex. if the new age theory seems flawed.

      What I hate is that there’s not much support for twins that are christian or people who do not want to be sucked into new age concepts. I hate that twin flames (originally called twin SOULS) are presented as a new age concept when they are not. That’s what I tried to tell here earlier when I told about these things.

      Twins do really exist. Like I said I have never read any twin flame information or came across of anything like that when I found out I had one. It was a thought that just came to me suddenly. I do not expect anything from this…. I have to say it has changed everything. I think it’s here to teach you how to love and remind others of the importance of loving, not to change our religion. That’s just how I see it. I refuse to give my faith in God away. I don’t wanna do that.

      I agree that not all twins are meant to be in a relationship. It shouldn’t matter. Sometimes I come across people who claim to be twins and are the same sex. I’m not sure how to feel about that. I don’t know if that’s possible but I don’t think (as a christian) that they’re supposed to be in a relationship. Originally it has been believed that twins have to be male and female couples but they could be friends or relatives as well so they’re not sexual relationships.

      I think people who try hard to look for their twin even though they’ve never had any proof they have one are romanticizing things, just like twins are often advised not to do.

      If you really do have a twin you’d notice yourself thinking you sometimes wish you didn’t. Not because you don’t love them but because you love them a little too much. I could explain here what that means but it would take too much time. Sometimes I wonder why God created us the way we are… I’ve tried to ask him but I don’t know. I’ve prayed I would find that out someday.

  29. Nicole says:

    This might sound strange. God puts us in trials. what if he made our twin flame, who our true match, when we go through the stages of twin flames, what if we have to go through this to understand the true love he has for us and reminding us the pain we go through ,what if he is reminding us thats how you treat me(GOD). I thought of it after my friend told me her relationship with her ex husband. her ex didn’t treat her well. she has a strong relationship with god but still is growing and learning. she told me how she would pray to GOD about her ex ( when they were married) why he treated her that way. she told me that GOD would tell her that’s how you treat me.

  30. Red says:

    dude it hate stupid religious people like you. I love god and believe in him and no one truly knows the truth. True love / twin flame is real. I’ve met my true love in the most strangest way which I’m not going to tell. My love for this person is the same love I feel from god and peace. God speaks through our heart/soul . The church teachings are even more demonic than the new age. Please just stop whatever your doing that’s making you less spiritual and more closed minded. You’re brainwashed unfortunately

  31. Jackson Cadenhead says:

    this article is false because twin flames are real and have a divine purpose .. I’m 17 and I have met my twin flame and trust me there is no doubt when you meet them. Sorry if I am asking to much of you to have an open mind to others instead of pretending you know everything.. New age is bunk sure but you have a spirit and a purpose don’t lose sight of that . God can’t do everything for you, pick up the cross and follow him. If only people knew more about twin flames it would be helpful on my journey but because of people like you many people think that’s it’s New Age Deception so please don’t talk about something you know nothing of…

    • Twinning says:

      Hello Jackson! Is there any chance I could chat with you at some chat or via email?

      Any other twins with christian background, please contact me somehow! I want to know other christians thoughts of this.

      • Jessica says:

        Im Christian and experiencing this…I love the Lord wuth everything I am. But Im afraid…Im married and so is he

        • marli says:

          Thank you Lisa…needed this. I am a christian and met my twin 12 years ago. we are the best of friends, yet both married to someone else. We have just decided not to fight the experience and telepathy we have..we are both devoted to Christ.

  32. Storm says:

    I can’t believe how many desperate people this new age ‘twin flame’ scam has unearthed. It’s so sad that it borders on being tragic.

    As I mentioned on another site dealing with the same subject, it’s inconceivable that an intelligent person would actually believe that we’re all born somehow incomplete – or in halves. I mean, wtf?

    Quote from Sleepless in Seattle: “Annie, when you’re attracted to someone, it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously. So what we think of as fate is just two neuroses knowing they’re a perfect match.”

    And while I’m rattling people’s delusions, I might as well say that god(s) don’t have anything to do with this bunk. It’s purely a man made synthetic load of toxic spiritual ‘plastic’.

    • Maria says:

      Again, this tells me you are only reading the surface and havent done ur research. The twin flames lesson preaches time and time again if anything is that you are already whole on your own and you dont need anyone but yourself and the love of God. only when u surrender to the divine love that is God, can you really be in union with ur divine counterpart that will manifest if God has that instore for you. … People just jumping the gun without even doing an ounce of research.

      Alll those ‘hurt’ people blindly following jerks is the same “soul mate ” concept. Those are just people there to teach us lessons – that we are not done loving ourselves fully so we chase and feel like we need others to be happy- codependency 101. Those are just people being desperate looking for a label to put their love life in. True twin flames are always connected through the soul, i know because you are so connected you can feel eachothers emotions, like real twins, and youd never want to hurt eachother. These relationships exist to bring love to this dying world and set examples of what real unconditional love in relationships should be like, not the needy and greedy full of jealousy and codependent crap that most people run on. This relationship is a gift from God. Dont judge what you havent experienced please. follow your own teachings. Most of you claim yo be christian but you arent christian at heart. You think being half commited to the word of God is okay. That is not okay. If you do not feel God with your heart whole heartedly and are more allured and stirred by the things of the world- to instantly lash out at strangers who have different opinions than you.. Pray and repent. That is the opposite of what the Bible teaches. Amen.

  33. Maria says:

    Funny how the author didn’t do much research because he seemed to choose an explanation that doesn’t really represent the twin flame community. The real twin fle community and “quotes” revolve around letting go and finding yourself and the Creator/Yahweh, and surrendering to God and Love, and then whoever this twin flame is, will come to you because you are both whole on your own with Gods binding unconditional love. listen people God is much much greater than the box you like to put him in. Its almost insulting that you love to criticize eachother in the name of God instead of loving one another and listening to each other. Most of you speak out of the Ego rather than the love of God. You love being “right” more than you love spreading the word of God. You ate not right if you are doing it out of egotistical pride rather than pride for the love of God. You think your way is the only way, but not until you shed the Ego, can you fully allow yourself to receive Gods love from the heart. Ego is what blocks the heart, think with your Heart and follow the Light and Yahweh and Yeshua<3 they are the only truth, not ur truth.

  34. lee says:

    I have a family member who has been sucked into the twin flame “CULT” and I am so desperate for help. He was the perfect target for this group as he was seeking for a mate for so long without luck and his self esteem must have been very low. Now they have him completely under their control.
    They have managed to get him into spending all of his income on energy healers, bundles of sage, gray socks, candles… And I don’t care about the money but they have managed to get him to believe that I am creating negative energy and he should avoid me. It is also been suggested that demons may be within me.
    Since his TW is married and has no interested in him sooner or later he will have to come to realize that this whole experience has been a scam, When that happens I fear he will have a nervous breakdown or worse.
    Does anyone know what I can do to help?? PLEASE.

    • K says:

      you should support him for no matter what he decide. Everyone is responsible for themselves.. either support or don’t interrupt him…
      Angel

  35. andy says:

    You have the yin and yang theory all twisted. Its not between good and evil, but actually it deals with the idea that all good has evil, and all evil has good. So there is no difference between the two, which stated in the Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu. But with twin flames, it deals with the feminine and masculine. This of course are opposites, yet, the two together can create each other. Western cultures have no clue as to the philosophy of the yin and yang for there is much more depth than all opposites attract. It deals with oneness of the two where they can be similar to each other. Its not complete opposites as there is no such thing, but a harmony of everything in various degrees of shadows and lights. I believe twin flames have similar pasts but in actuality each other possesses what the other needs to complete themselves…

  36. Ash877 says:

    The “twin flame” concept is just modern bullsh/it, fostered into existence by people so desperate to be “loved” that they’d eat dog sh*t if someone told them that was the way of finding your one and only love [lee’s example]. It is really nothing more than a rehashing of what was once viewed as soul mates.

    However, I believe soul mates as per the ORIGINAL meaning which has been warped by the “love me” bullsh*tters exist. However, the chances of finding your actual soul mate though… you’d have better luck winning the lotto or finding evidence bigfoot really exists.

    The reason why I say this is because I believe my partner and I are soul mates. It was just an instantaneous click. I am, by nature, the sort of person that sits back and observes people [even relatives] before engaging them however my brother jokes had I been a dog my tail would have been wagging the moment this family friend / now partner walked through the door. We started talking like we’d known one another our entire lives but except for hearing about him through family I’d never met him before in my life. Personality-wise we do literally compliment one another. It is sort of freaky how it is almost like I was designed for him, and he for me. And the really interesting part is neither of us had any real success in the dating scene – he was, before meeting me, into the occasional one night stand and I had only dated one chap prior … every time I tried to date it usually fell flat [didn’t feel right] despite how the dates weren’t slack-jawed idiots but typically professional & intelligent.

    Now modern spirituality – particularly western “spirituality” – is just a bunch of fools with no clue what they are doing, slapping together whatever works to feel special. I belong to a “spirituality” forum – it is a lovely way to unwind after a hard day of work, to laugh at the fools. An utter case of the daft leading the blind by the nose. Unlike 99.8% of these goofballs who are blinder than a cave mole about spirituality my family has been practicing the proper spiritual practices [eastern / Asian] for generations.

    I am beginning to think that many of these fools use the dub “twin flame” in particularly as merely to excuse the fact that they are just perverts lusting after people younger than them. A number of them continually say they have “younger twin flames” – a major theme is after all twin flames & soul mates won’t necessarily be the same age. I just read someone who was 46 with a “soul mate” that was 21, and a “twin flame” that was 18. Hello… Further, I am oftentimes worried about a number of their comments asking when will their “twin flame mature” to “awaken” the connection. Spirituality doesn’t work that way… as it can take decades for someone to mature spirituality…. so what exactly do they mean by “mature” [spiritual or is it actually code for physical maturity].

  37. woman says:

    all this stuff about “the lord” is just as stupid as the twin flame stuff. wtf! i thought i was reading a cool article. i was willing to overlook the false representation of yin and yang, but when u threw that superstitious and emotional christian stuff that defies logic, i got upset. thanks for wasting my time. god does not exist. if u think he does, how are u gonna invalidate someone who beleives in soul mate stuff? pfft. i am overwelmed with how stupid this article is.

    • Mark says:

      but then you may just be a fool???? no I’m joking, you are a fool. you have no clue what you are talking about

      • Me says:

        . I thot tf are suppose to help bring the earth to a higher vibration? Instead this damn concept makes ppl argue WTF?!?!? ^^^^ just reading all the comments makes me laugh

  38. I will pray for you because you have yet to learn the world outside of a book. I hope that God (who is neither female nor male) opens your eyes that truth and love conquer all. You are fearful when all God wants you to do is live yourself and others unconditionally. This means accept everyone and their journey. If you study the world, you will find God does not answer to man and you answer to him regardless and it is not up to your interpretation of the mysteries of the universe or to say what is and what isn’t. Learn your relationship with God before you judge others hearts and “let it be”

    • Jens Delivar says:

      THANK YOU. The debates and comments on this post, not to mention the post itself, makes me sooo grateful that man is not bigger than the universe lol we have such limited understandings of ourselves and consciousness smh lol

  39. Mark says:

    The twin flame “thing” is real. I’m not sure how you can claim to have “debunked” it, maybe the same way you people seem to think you can “debunk” medium ship.
    Both things are linked. I’ve experienced strange things now and again during my life, I have seen spirits and my ex wife knows I can, and my children know they exists. this is because I told them we had one in the house, before she showed them she was there. (running/walking around the house)
    In 2012 I ran into my twin flame (know from research) and was “told” by a higher dimension I had been brought to her. I felt my chakras activate (again, I know from research) spirit kept at me for the next to years tell me my future from time to time, until I woke up to what it was.
    I attended a medium ship workshop in 2015 and was asked to ask my guides for a connection, and it happened. a number of things happened including my blood going cold and me shivering throughout the connection.
    So, I am someone with a life time of experience, yet I keep coming across total fools who think they know everything. seriously you people annoy me.
    The James Randi challenge is fake, research it. It’s a publicity for dumb people to believe in.
    I challenge anyone to research medium ship properly, you need to be one on one with a really good medium. The suggestion I need to prove myself to a world wide audience is just so stupid and I’ve heard it a lot. mediums have tried, but you clowns make up excuses as to what is happening.

    “your ignorance does not mean I’m crazy, just means your ignorant” Ade you are about as ignorant as they come, you have no clue and you need to “Shut up”

  40. Me says:

    met this dude 2 years ago, and basically he made my life hell, but it was amazing! I wasn’t attracted to him at all at first, but I did feel this weird feeling around him, then yeah, that lovey dovey crap comes along, weird “psychic” experiences happen. Funny bc I only found out about TF shi AFTER we’ve already parted ways. I did notice a lotta 1111 before, and was SUPER INTRIGUED by supernatural material. Anyways, I started acting like a spiritual smart@$$ after I realized the truth. Yeah, I’m cringing as I type this. But then I realized I might have confused tf concept with a mental illness I may have and yeah I was sad. For a period ive let go of the concept, bc mental illnesses and spirituality can be quite confusing to a teen girl. But I realized I may have gone through healing and “letting go”, which I mean, is not to be so obsessed with the tf concept or mistaking it with soulmate. A year ago I thought I was letting go but I wasn’t. That was when I was a spiritual smart@$$, but now I don’t need him. I care for him but it’ll be ok in the end. Some of u guys still sound so obsessed like I did before and it makes me wanna LMFAO. GOOD LUCK TO YALL, ALL I KNOW IS IM GOOD ALONE, WITH TF OR NOT. <<thanks tf for making me stronger.

  41. As someone who has experienced this…first hand. You don’t know what you are talking about. This is not new age stuff. As a true psychic/ medium. I was born with my gifts. Experienced first past live vision at the age of five. I didn’t believe, just like you. Until I met my divine counter part. My life, will never be the same again. No one had to tell me. God told me who he was to me..Through everything, I feel blessed to have met him. There are those, out there Who are spreading untruths ,to the masses.. And it is sad. You ‘re not spiritually awake. So there for, your articles reflect this. I just hope, that no one has taken this to heart.
    I hope, that one day. Your eyes will open to the truth. Know thy self.. Most do not have a clue, to what this actually means.
    Love & Light…

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  44. rob says:

    All I know is, the autism is strong in this one. -_- smh you want the truth? Look within, you mental helmets.

  45. dawn morris says:

    Some ppl can get so into this t/f theory. its kinda irrks me to think about it I’ve never seen as many ppl belieave in this crazy theory. ppl should stop &use their brain. I’ve seen on certain. forums ppl actually. believe. this some are married to other ppl for petes sake. all those ppl are doin is messin with someone who could care more fore a rats tail than them. if two ppl are married they hav to really work on their marriage. its a job. If someone’s married for along time maybe they don’t do or say the cute things they said when the relationship. was fresh. time rolls on someone tells them ur so sexy or blah blah they start chattin with this person next thing they say i can’t het this girl or guy out of my head he/she must be a twin flame. I’m like no they r not just someone who made u feel good. But if they take it too far than next thing they want a divorce they may get with this t/ f. they call it next thing tho the so called t/f moves on to someone. eles than the person is depressed. alone wife or husband don’t won’t them back. so they hav no one i can’t believe. ppl are so silly &stupid. about this. hey ppl if ur marrage is in trouble. work pn it sit down &talk if u can’t get along than that’s one thing go get ur divorce if two ppl agree that’s what needs to be done. but stay single for at leadt two yrs by urself. don’t rush into relationships it will only more than likely. fail too. i agree god has our best intrest at heart. thumbs up on this one. ppl need some sense slapped in them i think. lol.

  46. dawn morris says:

    I personally don’t belieave in t/fs. U are ur own person, u can’t claim someone’s own soul. ,that’s silly. I’m not sure how many ppl believe. in this. ur mind can be ur worst. enemy. or ur best friend. for example. if my mom told me my dad was a serial. killer , i could start believing. that was true & be depressed. or think that half of me was a piece. of crap. or. ,the mind is powerful. its a scam. I’m my own person. what would ppl think it they never heard the term. t/ f. its just another. relationship. u get in too. if that person. believes that. than the person breaks the relationship. up than the otjer person. who believed that. gets depressed. don’t make ur life harder than it is. love ur family. parents ,kids. pets. that’s mote inportant than something. that’s made up. if its meant to be it will be. I’ve read forums. either they r married. or don’t want anything. to do with this person. why waste. ur energy. on this. theory. there’s no proof. of it. its kinda like. when i was 7or 8 yrs old i heard. if u kiss a frog. it will turn into. a handsome. prince. haha. i did that all that happened the frog. pissed on me. lol. wake up ppl use ur brain. its just a fairytale. just like kissing a toad frog. it sets in delusions. depression. its not worth. it. some wonder ,some filter ,something. to pass the time ,just ask him &he’ll tell u nothing. better. than a desperate. mind. u can hav it if u want it ,just remember. ,its a lonely. ride. corrosion. of conformity. band. if u fall in love. that’s great. if u stay together. forever than god bless ya.

  47. Metaphysical, sorry 🙂

  48. Yin and yang actually have nothing to do with “good” or “evil” at all. That’s a fundamental misconstruct. Yin and yang are more like “hot” and “cold”, “light” and “dark”. Dark isn’t evil (we need dark to sleep). Light isn’t “good” (fire can kill you).

  49. Also, if you examine a yin yang, you’ll see there is always a little bit of “dark” in the light, and a little bit of “light” in the dark.That’s not about good and evil, again. That’s about how if you go too far into any extreme, you come back at its opposite. (For example, if you go too far left right, the extreme left often has overlaps with the extreme right wing.)

  50. That all having been said, this could have been a much better debunking if you understood the concepts you’re trying to debunk.

  51. Susan says:

    Some would say that believing Jesus was God’s son is an illusion as well as having a Twin Flame. I guess it is according to what you choose to believe. All is good. I believe in respecting everyone’s beliefs cause none of us know really what is true and what is false.

  52. Paul medrano says:

    I’m a Christian. I’m I a big Jesus freak. I’m just trying to make sense of this because this is real. I can’t tell you the connection me and a girl have. It’s telepathic. Besides her name is Maria. My mom’s name is Maria. So is her mom. Her mom is Maria de Jesus my mom is Maria de Jesus. Her dad’s name is Paul.. My name is Paul. Her 9 year old son is autistic and is an Aries like her and my 9 year old son is Leo like me she has a six year old daughter I have a six year old son. She lives in Yuma Arizona I live in Houston tx. Besides these crazy connections we are non stop everyday on coincidence. It’s too much. She even picked a book at a book store and told me to pick a book She was thinning thinking of twice.. I got it right. I knew what she was thinking on our first date. It’s almost like there is Three of us. Could it be the holy spirit? I have no idea. But this is real there a a lot lot more I can’t explain

    • Paul medrano says:

      Oh and my son is autistic too. And her mom and my mom are one day off in birthdays. We met on social media.

  53. Jan says:

    I never would have believed in this concept until it happened to me. It is spiritual alchemy and has been around a long time. In genesis God made people both man and woman, meaning they were both sexes. Eve came out of Adam. Anyway, the reason I believe in this concept is because I have known a man since my childhood and I noticed as a child that I could hear him talk when he was too far away for me to be able to hear. We’re telepathic. One day when I was 35 I woke up from a deep sleep with information about him that I should not know. He is sterile/can’t have kids. How could I possibly know that without being told? I also suddenly knew he had been in love with me for a long, long time. I was shocked! He never said anything. I cried and cried at how I could have not realized this growing up. I always just wrote off the telepathy as my mind playing tricks on me and thought it was sooo weird but went on with life. Soon after this knowing I began feeling someone touching me but there was no one there. Creeeeepy!!!! I thought I had some kind of Incubus issue or was being raped by a ghost. I found out that incubus’ only come during sleep not while awake. That’s when I decided I had to google all this stuff. When I googled telepathy, telepathic touch, and claircognizance, guess what came up in the search results? It was one twin flame article after another. That is the only explanation I have for what was happening to me. If you have a better explanation I’d love to hear it. Please keep in mind that the father of modern psychology, Carl Jung, also experienced this alchymical wedding. It is not insanity and the bible supports the idea when interpreted mystically. I’m afraid too many of you are eating from the tree of the knowledge or good and evil instead of the tree of life (Jewish Kabbalah). You must separate the wheat from the chaff when interpreting the bible. The outer exoteric teachings must be separated from the inner esoteric teachings. I completely understand that it sounds like some teen magazine BS, but the evidence of personal experience is leading me to believe more and more everyday.

  54. Freewind8 says:

    you are dealing with satan, he has confused you. I have gone through what you describe, and when you feel that touch those are demons, I´ve had a supposed twin flame experience, it is not according to the word of God, and it is not God´s Will, no one should be connected to another soul in the spirit level, for that is a sin against God, for it is only God´s place to be connected to us in spirit level. That to say the least, and I´m not even talking about the spiritual warfare that I have had to go through against demons because of this. Scripture that supports this:

    2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

    2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

    3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

    4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

    2 Corinthians 11:2-4King James Version (KJV)

    2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.

    3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

    4 For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him.

    1 Corinthians 3:16-17:“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.”

  55. Freewind8 says:

    it is not the will of God to be connected to another soul in that way, people many times end up loving a soul more than they would love Yeshua Hamashiaj, and that is the goal of satan to distract people and take them to hell for becoming idolaters of another soul.

  56. Freewind8 says:

    the kabbalah is just a bunch of demonic information, nothing else needs to be interpreted. Isn´t it enough for you to know that God himself became flesh and died for you and for all, and resurrected and He is your Father and Saviour. Isn´t it enough to have His Great Love?, well it should be. Esoteric interpretations and occultism are all of satan.

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